So here I am reading outside ‘my shelf’ so to speak. This month’s ‘assigned’ book for The Kitchen Reader was What We Eat When We Eat Alone: Stories and 100 Recipes by Deborah Madison and Patrick McFarlin.
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Some solo diners relish the elaborate, while others prefer the bizarre, some eat their favorite foods, some eat what’s convenient, and others choose their menues according to their moods.
I’m not sure where I fall in that group. Sometimes I eat my favorite foods that no one else likes (Curry). Sometimes it is what ever is left over from the past couple of meals. I don’t remember turning to something bizarre, but often according to my mood. Guess that makes me an ecclectic ‘alone’ eater.
But I guess that is what Madison and McFarlin were thinking when they interviewed different people about their ‘alone’ eating habits. They found there is often a difference between peoples but it isn’t always between the sexes or the age groups. It is just due to different tastes and experiences. I do think that it has a lot to do with class. It seems most of the people the authors interviewed were more professional/well educated/upper middle and upper class people whose experiences are different from others. (But that is just how I saw it.) I was surprised by some of the ‘report’ but not by all of it. Comfort foods often come up when one is alone – PB and J, Mac and Cheese, Soup and Sandwich. But comfort is also personal.
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I buy a large jar of picked herring…., boil enough potatoes….caramelize some sweet onions, then top the potatoes with them and a good portion of herry….works for the 100 percent German in me.”
It’s all relative.
There are some good recipes in the book from the individuals who do eat alone: Brooke’s Chicken Fajitas with Black Beans, Exotic Rice Pudding on Demand, Salmon Chowder, Maureen’s Shrimp, Feta, and Bulgur Salad, and (of course) Pickled Herring with Mashed Potatoes and Caramelized Onions.
I still am not sure if I liked this book, but I enjoyed the information and it was interesting reading. I guess it’s the culturalist in me. Different people, different worlds, different ideas.
And that is why they make
So, I pose the same question to you, Dear Readers, “When you are alone – if/when that ever happens – what do you EAT??”

January 31, 2010 at 2:51 PM
I thought this book was rather interesting-kind of a “fly-on-the-wall” look at what people actually do eat when alone.
I’m normally not alone when dinner time rolls around-but if I am, it’s usually scrambled eggs and toast. I ate much differently when I was alone and single.
January 31, 2010 at 4:56 PM
I’m somewhat eclectic too, usually eating what there are small amounts of around the house. I found it interesting to think about the different phases of life and how solo eating habits change. Next time I eat dinner alone, I’ll be analyzing it more than usual!
January 31, 2010 at 6:20 PM
Hmmmmm, if i could eat everyday all by myself, it would be a Mexican feast and some experimental foods such as your curry. Yum.
January 31, 2010 at 7:55 PM
I definitely go with my mood. Whatever I might be craving is what I will fix. And if my mood is lazy, I might just eat leftovers or soup from a can.
February 1, 2010 at 2:17 AM
This looks like an interesting book. I eat alone a lot as Dave travels for work. I usually eat cereal and yogurt and lots of nuts.
February 1, 2010 at 2:38 PM
There are times when I am alone until late in the evening. When I don’t have to make dinner..
I eat popcorn!
February 2, 2010 at 8:28 AM
I often tend to just snack really–a slice of lunchmeat, some pickles, sun-dried tomatoes from a jar if I’ve got ‘em.
February 5, 2010 at 3:02 PM
Um, anyone want that last one? I’ll take it …. Looks so warm and delish! Great job
AmyRuth